Main light - Aputure 300D mk II: https://amzn.to/3lxVo3T (I also own the 300x shown in the video. 300x offers bi-color, 300D offers more light output. I'd pick 300D if I could only have one, and use gels for temp/color adjustment)
Alt - Godox SL-60W (comes with a softbox and grid!): https://amzn.to/2Xrm6Ts
Hair light - Godox ML60: https://amzn.to/39eZVCD (very similar to SL-60W but smaller and less fan noise. Requires a Bowens adapter though.)
Bowens adapter: https://amzn.to/2Xvv0jo
Fresnel (focuses light) - Aputure Fresnel: https://amzn.to/3zmtvR8 (I don't know of a cheaper alt for this, but you can use another cheap LED panel as a hair light instead. I just like the intensity of the fresnel)
Wall-mount light arm: https://amzn.to/3nIc0bW (I did it with single wall-mount baby pin drilled into a stud, but this option is way smarter)